I didn't build this system. I asked for it.

 

I didn’t build this system. I asked for it.

I have wanted a world class group of advisors for every aspect of my life, and I was tired of waiting. ๐Ÿง ๐Ÿงญ


The Frustration ๐Ÿ˜ค

It started like this: I was using ChatGPT regularly and getting a lot out of it — more than most people, probably. But over time, things got messy. Conversations would drift. Memory would fill up. I'd lose context, or worse, start preserving the wrong kind of context: fragments of specific details that clogged the system while the important, core parts of me — the way I think, the values that drive my decisions — got buried under domain names and test scores.

It wasn’t that ChatGPT was broken. It was doing exactly what I was asking — just not what I wanted.

So I stopped.

And I asked it a simple question:

"What if I want a team of world-class advisors who think like I do, but who each specialize in a different area of my life? What if I’m not the same person in every domain, and I want AI that reflects that?"

The Pivot ๐Ÿ”

And that changed everything.

I didn’t design the system. I didn’t read a whitepaper or copy someone’s Substack.

I described the problem. I explained the tension: too much noise, too little structure, and the growing friction of trying to “manage memory” instead of building something that thinks with me.

ChatGPT gave me the blueprint. I gave it my personality. Together, we built something better.


Enter: The Personal Cabinet ๐Ÿง‘‍⚖️๐Ÿ—‚️

I now have a team of custom GPTs. Each one knows who I am — not just on paper, but through how I make decisions, how I respond to setbacks, what kind of advice I’ll ignore, and where I tend to thrive when things line up.

They all inherit my Core 'Wilbert' Identity Block — a distilled foundation of first principles, reasoning patterns, and preferences. But from there, they diverge. Each one is shaped into a specialist — because I’m not the same person in every context.

Here’s what I’ve built so far:

๐Ÿงฎ Math Project / Course GPT

For lesson design, curriculum flow, test construction, scaffolding, and pacing decisions.

๐Ÿซ Education GPT

Handles IEP blurbs, boundary-setting parent communication, and instructional strategy across co-taught, EL, and repeater classes.

๐Ÿง’ Parenting / Family GPT

For raising four kids across a 16-year age span. Includes strategy, discipline, empathy calibration, and balancing boundaries.

๐Ÿ–️ Retirement GPT

Focused on future lifestyle design, pension strategy, and what to build after I stop working. Travel, health, and habit architecture live here too.

๐Ÿ“ˆ Investing GPT

Aggressive growth focus. IRA and 457 portfolio management. Sector speculation, conviction tracking, and risk calibration.

❤️ Health GPT

Late-start but essential. Now that I’ve hit 60, it’s a must. Sleep, longevity, bloodwork, gut health — minus the fluff.

๐Ÿง  Life Philosophy GPT

Not therapy. Not productivity porn. Just a place for clarity, ethics, meaning, and life design work.

๐ŸŒฑ Plant GPT

Lower priority, but tracks what I grow, what works in my environment, and what to experiment with next.

๐ŸŒ Domain GPT

Handles domain investing strategy, pricing decisions, negotiation scenarios, and portfolio pruning. My most used GPT.

๐Ÿ“š Stories GPT

Dedicated to fiction writing and creative work. Keeps the tone and genre consistent while helping me push through creative blocks.

๐Ÿ”จ Rehab/Home Projects GPT

Organizes everything from patching drywall to long-term renovation goals. Strategy, budgeting, and project planning.


Why It Works ⚙️

I didn’t try to make one GPT do it all. I didn’t pretend I’m a single, consistent person across all domains. I'm not. I’m different as a teacher than I am as a domainer. I'm a different kind of dad than I am a retirement planner.

Each of these advisors is tuned to that slice of me. They don't contradict each other. They reflect the way I already live — and sharpen the way I want to live going forward.


Final Word ๐Ÿงพ

This isn’t a system anyone handed me. I didn’t unlock it by being an expert. I asked for it. I got tired of waiting for AI to magically know what I needed. Instead, I started describing my problems honestly and letting the system co-design the solution with me.

It’s not perfect yet. But it’s close. And it’s mine.

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